CHEATERS!

HELLO WORLD I’m Back with another Blog tonight , I am here to talk about one of the most talked about subjects in America CHEATERS. Alright so let’s get into this Blog. okay so let’s be honest WOMEN & MEN we have all been cheated on before some of us more than once right? now I have a question can any of you tell me A Reason you might know why you got cheated on? There is no right or wrong answer because at the end of the day CHEATING is NOT JUSTIFIED. let me mention again that I am only 23 years old I’m young so with that being said I have came across a whole lot of cheaters since I have been in the dating scene , I started dating my freshman year in High-school I was 14 years old I still curse the day I started to DATE haha because let’s be honest Dating comes with many problems that you just don’t want to deal with such as the cheating. Now I have herd some of the dumbest reasons on why I have been cheated on, don’t get me wrong I have my flaws I am not the perfect girlfriend nor the perfect person with the perfect attitude I have my days, but let me tell Y’all KVLOG readers I am one of the most LOYAL woman you can meet, I know some of y’all men reading this like ” that’s what all woman say ” TRUE it is but don’t forget there’s many of Us who are really like this and I mean it idc if My man did something that has me LIVID I will still do everything a woman is suppose to do for her man at the end of the day. But for some reason I always seem to get cheated on and I use to always ask myself why? What am I doing wrong? Maybe I should do this or maybe I should do that? Listen HERE MAN & WOMEN there is nothing more you can do you gave it your all, you have done nothing wrong OK, the reason your spouse cheated isn’t because of you it’s because of them, it’s because they didn’t care enough, they didn’t try enough, they didn’t love you enough, they didn’t respect you enough! It’s NOT YOU! I use to constantly blame myself and tell myself maybe it’s because I have to much attitude or maybe I’m wanting to much. NO the problem is them do NOT settle for less or lower your standards to make them happy if your spouse isn’t happy with what you want in life LEAVE never let anyone make you feel like you are not good enough because YOU ARE no matter Shape or size black or white you are PERFECT. A cheater is going to be a cheater, and they will beat you down for it telling you, ” you work to much and I was lonely ” so you gone sit in my face and tell me you cheated on me because I’m trying to make a living for myself to make sure I have everything I need to survive in this world? NO NO NO ! I would never.now like I said I am YOUNG so I know a lot of you readers are like psssshhh what does this 23 year old know about this and the answer is I KNOW ENOUGH. I use to settle for less, let man beat me down and make me feel like I was the problem or I complain to much or want to much or I had to be a certain way or else I would get cheated on if you have someone in your life making you feel like any of those ways LEAVE walk out that door and don’t turn back, if they can’t love you for you then there’s no point of loving them. A cheater will justify themselves as a person who didn’t feel like they were getting enough when you was giving them all you had, that’s called SELFISH! And there is no changing a person so selfish, the problem is most people just want love that they settle for the first thing walking through the door or some are just afraid to start over. Don’t Be afraid START OVER or even take sometime to learn yourself again learn what makes you happy or what you want or see yourself doing in 5 years I don’t care of you are 50 years old I believe there is someone out there for everybody who is going to love you and cherish you for the person you are. People stop giving up on your self for these cheaters, if a man or a woman can not love you they way you want to be loved MOVE ALONG don’t love someone who loving Keisha, Brittany, Tiffany and YOU, love some who is going to love YOU, YOU & ONLY YOU OKAAAAAYYY 💕

– KVLOGS ❤️

STRUGGLES !

Hello word, welcome to my blogs of truth. So let’s talk about struggles, am I the only person wondering what is the point of working when you still struggle regardless of how much you make? like come on let’s be honest here the only way your surviving in this world is if your a celebrity with millions of dollars a doctor a lawyer or a successful business owner. There are so many of us who have to work all day or even work two jobs just to be able to afford are rent or feed our kids or to even be able to pay all our bills on time, With out having to work so much to the point we’re that’s all you have time for. I’m 23 years old living in Stockton, CA probably one of the worst places you could ever live in I’m a certified nursing assistant, I have no kids and I’m pretty much living my life now I bet when most of you seen that part you probably thought ” she seems like she haves it good what could she possibly be complaining about ?” well the answers is A WHOLE LOT. lol.. STORY TIME : Okay so yes I’m a certified nursing assistant complaint #1: if you know what a certified nursing assistant is then you know that is one of the bottom of the barrel type of nurses ( if you don’t know look it up please) just so you can get a understanding of what I mean. But besides that we make a good amount of money but not as much as people think it’s between 800-1000$ dollars every two weeks (1,000$ with over time ) in Stockton, CA most one bedrooms go from 900-1100. So there was this time I was applying for apartments for myself and at this time I was thinking okay I can do this I’m making some good money here so BOOM I apply for this place called the POLO RUNS not knowing it was low income apartments. So they call me and they explain to me that I make to much to live in those type of apartments so I’m like ” okay that’s understandable” so the lady tells me she can send over a list of places I’m qualified for in Stockton so She ask for my email I send it Sounds great right? WRONG! Complaint #2 : Y’all I get the list and tell me why the places I qualified for was 1100$&UP apartments for a ONE BEDROOM APARTMENT! remind you I have other bills phone bill car note, so I’m thinking to myself this haves to be a joke how can a person who makes 800.00$ every two weeks afford this? I mean let’s be real I would practically live at work in order to be able to pay rent every month on top of all my other bills + the cost of food + Gas + clothing + and personal stuff that I need every month. Sounds crazy right? Most people get roommates or rent rooms in there house to even be able to afford the cost of living. I don’t understand it, what’s even the point of minimum wage going up? The more that goes up the more cost of living goes up it’s a LOOSE LOOSE situation . I know there’s so many people out there that have REAL STRUGGLES and that are loosing there hope in this world and are becoming to a point of life were there ready to give up! Just a few words of encouragement : ” DONT GIVE UP KEEP GOING AND THRIVE DO NOT LET THIS WORLD TAKE YOU DOWN, IF YOU HAVE FALLEN GET BACK UP DUST YOUR SELF OFF AND KNOCK THIS WORLD DOWN LIKE ITS ONCE DONE YOU LOOK IN THAT MIRROR AND TELL YOURSELF I WILL BE SUCCESSFUL I WILL BE BETTER AND I WILL THRIVE ”

– KVLOGS ❤️